Yeah, that's the part that messed me up

Yeah, that's the part that messed me up 2013-12-18 01:28:37I honestly didn't think what had happened in the past affected, or COULD affect someone in the present/future. But, I had one serious and, since, one semi-serious relationship fail on me because of not properly communicating these matters. The problems I'm referring to, by the way, are more about mistakes I made with my finances and how those mistakes are still affecting me to this day. I can't do certain things as would otherwise be possible if these things weren't bothering me today. I'm definitely not saying chips_and_salsa2013-12-18 01:25:33you should hide some essential part of yourself, but the reality is that people will make stupid rapid judgements against others if they aren't fully invested/don't see you for who you are yet. Like if someone put up in their dating profile that they used to have a heroin problem, I'd probably mark them off the list of possible suitors instantly. If a guy I was in a relationship with mentioned that six months into us dating, it'd be a different story. That's reassuring -op-2013-12-18 01:22:02I've had problems in relationships in the past and it seems to center around me not communicating these issues, or sooner in the relationship. (I know, this isn't a relationship at this point.)colQuestion about cooking with wine: chips_and_salsa2013-12-18 01:21:42So, I just made a lovely dish with wine, and the wine had an off flavor, and I feel like it penetrated the meat & dominates the sauce. Can you add a touch of sugar after the fact to decrease those flavors? Does anyone know?definitely Obama's fault chips_and_salsa2013-12-18 01:16:51*nods sagely* The applications game is a really frustrating one. If I may make a suggestion, go to the reddit city page for any city you're considering, and ask people what sort of companies they know that can or do employ people with your skills. Make sure to toss in a sentence or two about how great the city is, and how you'd love to live there. People seem really enthusiastic about sharing that kind of information, especially when they feel "chosen". You'll end up with a lot of company names that you weren't seeing on the job boards, necessarily. You can send resumes directly to them, etc. When's the best time to tell a potential 2013-12-18 01:14:28date/gf about some of difficult things in your past? Been going back and forth with a woman at work and there seems to be something there. That's the vibe I've been getting both from her, as well as mutual female coworkers. I feel comfortable with her. The problems in my past are difficult to explain in a nice, neat, five minute conversation. !!! 2013-12-18 01:11:42I should be so lucky. I'd love to visit Ohio. I've been applying to openings nationwide - no replies yet, but I'll make my way out west for sure even if no job interviews turn up. (The labor market's been in the shitter for my skillset for months, not sure wtf is going on but I'm adamantly blaming Obama. It's all his damn fault.) Dinner would be awesome! Thanks for the invite.catI saw some women in their late 40's, early 50's WooferDaSuperPooch2013-12-18 01:09:53single. Their hips are very nice. They are just lonely and just would love a fiend to rub their butts. I've been with women that age. They're fuck crazy. Romance and gentleness is a cover.i don't listen to you... Maverick4152013-12-18 01:09:26because your post is anonymous. logical enough? you're stupid to post in gray....to Ohio?... chips_and_salsa2013-12-18 01:06:52I don't really know what's here, relative to what you're looking for, but if you end up here on an interview, you'd make me the happiest hostess in Ohio if you wanted to share a meal, or hang for a day or what have you... 2013-12-18 01:06:04I don't think he's applying logic to his posting abilities kolAnd if you were born a woman & gifted like that Walkin_Softly2013-12-18 01:00:46I'd do ya. ♥ 2013-12-18 00:58:21You're very kind. I know neurology's your forte but I figured you were busy since I didn't see you on rofo for a looooooooong time. I'm glad you're back. And yes, I most certainly am willing to relocate. I've been interviewing locally but no offers yet, I passed up a "good opportunity" in late September and it's been slim pickin's since. I may have shot myself in the foot. It's more complicated than that. Walkin_Softly2013-12-18 00:55:40My FWB is 39 now. We don't really date though. The 22 yo was keeping an eye on my brother & I while my mom was out of town. Plus I was friends with her brother, which is why my mom asked her. I watched my first porn with her. I understand. § lions-in-hell2013-12-18 00:53:18but but but chips_and_salsa2013-12-18 00:50:42neurobio is the *best*, wish you'd called me, we could've gabbed about it excitedly for *hours*. When I say we I mean I, just to be clear. Neurology is my hotbutton... Glad it didn't kick your butt completely! Are you willing to move for work? Yeah, something like that. Walkin_Softly2013-12-18 00:50:19A few times Me/Her 14/22 14/19 17/26 18/32 19/26 19/38 20/36 Those are the only ones I can remember right now. I'm proud of you, too. 2013-12-18 00:47:35I'm ok. Neurobio kicked my ass this fall, barely passed. Aimin' to file for May graduation *fingers crossed*, hope there's work for me in spring *shakes fist*. sfoLOL Walkin_Softly2013-12-18 00:45:56We act differently around older women. At least I did. sfoHe'd be 18.5, tyvm. chips_and_salsa2013-12-18 00:44:00No...I didn't like guys that age when I was that age, just an annoying, immature bunch. I'm very proud of you chips_and_salsa2013-12-18 00:42:36I had to look it up to confirm. This sort of thing was among the least loved material of my undergraduate career. I'm well, I think. How've you been?Easy. I'm getting ready to go on vacation. § Walkin_Softly2013-12-18 00:42:23sfoBARELY LEGAL TEENS! chips_and_salsa2013-12-18 00:40:18No thanks...I don't think I can select between either of these options. A 37-year age difference is too much for the older guy. If he were my age + half my age, the same year difference as is the other direction, I could consider it. Maybe. sfoI will ONLY date someone half my age. § Walkin_Softly2013-12-18 00:39:40yeehaw! I actually retained information. 2013-12-18 00:39:37How are you? Ltns. I've been learning a bit about abstract thinking Walkin_Softly2013-12-18 00:38:50recently. :) How ya doin? kolIf i was a woman i'd be born gifted like this: 2013-12-18 00:37:11sfooh god, I'd look awful § chips_and_salsa2013-12-18 00:35:02chipsy! is formal operations the final stage? 2013-12-18 00:34:43I feel like I'm missing something. bsbOh, Doctor, Are you all right? Where am I? 2013-12-18 00:33:42 You're in the records room, The records room? Oh, I'm fine, Can I get you something? Do you have The Beatles' White Album?

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