Stop Trying To Impress Women - And Start Attracting Them
One of the biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women is, they go in with the belief that beautiful women are 'superior' to them.
This can automatically make guys nervous, fidgety, or even feel afraid and inferior to women.
Even a guy who has learned to become comfortable around beautiful women - and is able to have a conversation with them can still blow it IF he believes that the woman is superior to him.
By believing that the women are superior to him, he will do all the wrong things that will repel the women away from him.
Without even realizing it, he will try to impress the woman, or feel the need to "prove" to the woman that he is "worthy" of her attention.
He will try to be too nice or accomodating, compliment her too much, agree with everything she says and never disagree or challenge her in any way.
The average guy will do all of the above because he doesn't want to "upset" the woman in any way (because, in his mind, she is superior, remember?)
The problem is, all of the above will make the woman see you as weak, spineless, boring, and yes, even somewhat inferior to her, i.e. out of her league.
And, women are not attracted to weak, spineless and boring men...especially if the guys are clearly out of the women's league.
You may think that being nice to her and agreeing with everything she says will make her like you. But it will not. In fact, it will push her away from you.
Most important of all, women know the game that most guys try to play - by being nice to them and being all-agreeing all obeying, all the time.
Women, especially pretty ones, know exactly what you're trying to do, which is to get her to like you so that she will sleep with you. And they will see you as being manipulative and a liar.
I mean, think about it...
If you're being all-agreeing and all obeying, you're obviously trying to get her to like you. But, you're not being your true self. You're pretending to be nice and all-agreeing.
Anytime that you try too hard to get her to like you, she will see it a mile away. And, she will start to see you as just another lying, manipulative chump who's trying to get into her pants.
(And, in most cases, she wouldn't be wrong, would she?)
So, how do you fix this?
Simple...
STOP treating her like a hot, sexy woman. Stop doing all those nice and "impressing" things you normally do around hot women - and start treating her like just another person you've met.
Think about it... if you were talking to a friend... or even to a woman 3 times your age who you were not attracted to in any way, would you talk to her differently than you would a hot woman you're trying to attract?
Of course you would. And, the hot woman knows this! She sees it in almost every guy.
So...if you really want to attract her, show her that her "outer beauty" does not make her any more special than other women.
Treat her like everybody else.
That means, do not agree with everything she says. Agree with her only when she's saying something that you honestly agree with. Otherwise, state your opinion.
Most importantly, do not compliment her on her beauty or physical attributes.
Be a man. Have some thoughts and opinions of your own! Don't be like all those other boring guys out there who will try to insult her intelligence by agreeing with everything she says.
That doesn't mean you have to be a jerk or a bully. You can disagree with a smile, and still make your point.
You can even poke a little fun at her from time to time. Yes, this is something most guys would never dare do! And, that's why it will work. She will find you to be confident and she'll see you as having a mind of your own.
You can even take this "approach strategy" further, and start to create some real attraction in her - for you.
Sunday, 23 March 2014
How to Become Incredibly Attractive to Women By Fixing ONE Thing
How to Become Incredibly Attractive to Women By Fixing ONE Thing
These days, there are a lot of techniques, tricks, and routines available to the average guy, that promise to help him "get the girl."
Unfortunately, most of that stuff being sold out there rarely works to help you get more dates, if at all.
You see, at the end of the day, giving a bunch of techniques is useless to a guy if he is too nervous, anxious or even afraid to approach women. If he can't bolster up the courage to walk up and talk to a beautiful woman, none of the techniques or "lines" will work ever work because he will never get to use any of them.
And, even if he did somehow pump himself up and drum up enough courage to approach a woman, that woman will see through his fake and/or temporary 'confidence' and will probably rip him to shreds.
The hotter the woman is, the quicker she will send the guy running off with his tail between his legs. (If you've ever tried approaching a "10," you may have already experienced this personally.)
So... if you ever want to "fix" your dating life and your ability to attract and date beautiful women - permanently, you must fix your mind first! Or else, everything else you do will be a waste of time. None of it will work unless you work on adopting the seductive mindset first!
The average guy walks into the dating game with the belief that he has to impress a woman by showing her - or telling her about - his success, riches, status, fame, connection, etc.
And while those things may get some women's attention, it will rarely work to attract them to you. Moreover, the women that do get attracted to you because of your money, success, or status will almost always be the wrong kind of women, i.e. gold diggers, who are not interested in you, but only in your money and/or success.
The same is true for guys who are "good looking" and only use their looks to try to seduce women. Again, that will only attract women who are interested in how you look - not in who you are. (Plus, we all know that "looks" are always temporary.)
And, even if you did happen to attract a women with just your looks, if you don't have anything else going for you - besides your good looks, the average woman will lose interest in you very quickly. She will get bored and move on. (It's the equivalent of choosing a gift with the shinest wrapper, unwrapping it, and being disappointed at what you find inside.)
Unless you've worked on adopting the right mindset, none of the other stuff will work. And, if that other stuff does work, it will usually attract the wrong kind of women...so the 'success' you achieve will be very temporary.
So...in order to become genuinely attractive to women, without relying on money, status, good looks or shiny new clothes, you have to know and understand what women are really attracted to! (Not what they say or think they're attracted to - but what they are really attracted to.)
And, in order to understand what women are attracted to, you must first understand and really "get" what women are not attracted to. You must understand what women are turned off - or even repelled - by.
And you must learn to never do those things around women.
Here's a list of some of the most common "turn offs" and repulsive behaviors:
1. Being too nervous, fidgety, anxious, in awe of, and generally uncomfortable around her. (This is where we started, remember?)
2. Trying to impress her by showing - or telling her about - your car, house, bank account, job, connections, etc.
3. Trying to be macho, arrogant, egotistic, a jerk, a "bad boy" etc. (Yes, some women are attracted to jerks or "bad boys" but pretending to be one of those guys will only backfire on you. Remember, getting "pumped up" before approaching her isn't the best strategy to use.)
4. Being too "nice," agreeing with everything she says, kissing up to her, or any such behavior - in hopes of trying to make her "like" you.
5. Trying too hard to keep the conversation going, not being comfortable enough to just talk and have fun naturally, and even trying too hard to be funny.
The first one, #1, listed above is one of the main reasons guys don't attract women. It is also a big reason as to why the other turn-offs, listed in numbers 2 - 5 exist.
When you're uncomfortable around beautiful women (or women in general,) nothing else will work in your favor, especially not techniques or pickup lines that you've practiced for hours.
When you're uncomfortable, you will try to impress her too much, you will pretend to be macho and confident, you will kiss up to her, and you will even try too hard to keep the conversation interesting and/or flowing naturally.
There are many techniques you can use to "fix" this problem - from easy to complex, from quick to more time-consuming.
One of the easiest ways to become comfortable around women is to stop trying to attract them or date them (for now)... and just start talking to them - as if they were any other stranger you happened to come across, i.e. a woman you're not attracted to, a child, or even a guy.
Simply start talking to women - all women, anywhere and everywhere. Talk to them as you would another human being. Stop trying to impress them or seduce them.
If this is not easy for you to do, start by talking to women you're not attracted to - as mentioned above.
And start by simply saying "Hi" or "Hello."
Do not worry about how they respond. Just do it - with a friendly smile. And, instead of letting their response affect you emotionally, simply observe what they do or say.
Think of it as a social experiment. Imagine the entire world is your laboratory.
Remember, your goal here is not to attract or seduce her. It's to simply get your mind (and body) to become comfortable with the idea of talking to women.
It's a gradual process, so don't force it too much. And, don't beat yourself up over it either.
Just think of it as practice. Any sport or activity that you want to get good at requires practice. And, at first it may seem slow-going, but things will pick up speed as you continue working and putting in the time.
So, just do it, and forget about the results for now. (Just think of it as a social experiment, as I mentioned earlier.)
Say "Hi" or Hello" to random strangers for a week, wherever you see them.
Then, add "How are you?" and do that for another week. (If they start talking to you, then obviously respond in like.)
Then, for the next week, try to have (read: initiate) an actual conversation with them for at least a minute or two. (Talk about the weather, their cool hat, or whatever. Just get used to the idea of talking to strangers.)
The more comfortable you become with doing this, the better, and more positively, they will respond to you. And, this constant, upward cycle will continue to feed itself - as you become more comfortable and competent.
And of course, learn from each experience. Remember to pay attention to as much of what's going on as possible. (This will also force you to get out of your own head and focus your attention on them. That's a good thing.)
Remember, don't take anything they say or do personally, but pay attention to the process. And, use that to improve your conversation skills for approaching complete strangers and getting them to open up to you.
Only after you have become comfortable with the process can you start adding (and using) some conversation techniques to your strategy.
Remember, what we discussed earlier... the mindset needs to be fixed first; techniques come later.
These days, there are a lot of techniques, tricks, and routines available to the average guy, that promise to help him "get the girl."
Unfortunately, most of that stuff being sold out there rarely works to help you get more dates, if at all.
You see, at the end of the day, giving a bunch of techniques is useless to a guy if he is too nervous, anxious or even afraid to approach women. If he can't bolster up the courage to walk up and talk to a beautiful woman, none of the techniques or "lines" will work ever work because he will never get to use any of them.
And, even if he did somehow pump himself up and drum up enough courage to approach a woman, that woman will see through his fake and/or temporary 'confidence' and will probably rip him to shreds.
The hotter the woman is, the quicker she will send the guy running off with his tail between his legs. (If you've ever tried approaching a "10," you may have already experienced this personally.)
So... if you ever want to "fix" your dating life and your ability to attract and date beautiful women - permanently, you must fix your mind first! Or else, everything else you do will be a waste of time. None of it will work unless you work on adopting the seductive mindset first!
The average guy walks into the dating game with the belief that he has to impress a woman by showing her - or telling her about - his success, riches, status, fame, connection, etc.
And while those things may get some women's attention, it will rarely work to attract them to you. Moreover, the women that do get attracted to you because of your money, success, or status will almost always be the wrong kind of women, i.e. gold diggers, who are not interested in you, but only in your money and/or success.
The same is true for guys who are "good looking" and only use their looks to try to seduce women. Again, that will only attract women who are interested in how you look - not in who you are. (Plus, we all know that "looks" are always temporary.)
And, even if you did happen to attract a women with just your looks, if you don't have anything else going for you - besides your good looks, the average woman will lose interest in you very quickly. She will get bored and move on. (It's the equivalent of choosing a gift with the shinest wrapper, unwrapping it, and being disappointed at what you find inside.)
Unless you've worked on adopting the right mindset, none of the other stuff will work. And, if that other stuff does work, it will usually attract the wrong kind of women...so the 'success' you achieve will be very temporary.
So...in order to become genuinely attractive to women, without relying on money, status, good looks or shiny new clothes, you have to know and understand what women are really attracted to! (Not what they say or think they're attracted to - but what they are really attracted to.)
And, in order to understand what women are attracted to, you must first understand and really "get" what women are not attracted to. You must understand what women are turned off - or even repelled - by.
And you must learn to never do those things around women.
Here's a list of some of the most common "turn offs" and repulsive behaviors:
1. Being too nervous, fidgety, anxious, in awe of, and generally uncomfortable around her. (This is where we started, remember?)
2. Trying to impress her by showing - or telling her about - your car, house, bank account, job, connections, etc.
3. Trying to be macho, arrogant, egotistic, a jerk, a "bad boy" etc. (Yes, some women are attracted to jerks or "bad boys" but pretending to be one of those guys will only backfire on you. Remember, getting "pumped up" before approaching her isn't the best strategy to use.)
4. Being too "nice," agreeing with everything she says, kissing up to her, or any such behavior - in hopes of trying to make her "like" you.
5. Trying too hard to keep the conversation going, not being comfortable enough to just talk and have fun naturally, and even trying too hard to be funny.
The first one, #1, listed above is one of the main reasons guys don't attract women. It is also a big reason as to why the other turn-offs, listed in numbers 2 - 5 exist.
When you're uncomfortable around beautiful women (or women in general,) nothing else will work in your favor, especially not techniques or pickup lines that you've practiced for hours.
When you're uncomfortable, you will try to impress her too much, you will pretend to be macho and confident, you will kiss up to her, and you will even try too hard to keep the conversation interesting and/or flowing naturally.
There are many techniques you can use to "fix" this problem - from easy to complex, from quick to more time-consuming.
One of the easiest ways to become comfortable around women is to stop trying to attract them or date them (for now)... and just start talking to them - as if they were any other stranger you happened to come across, i.e. a woman you're not attracted to, a child, or even a guy.
Simply start talking to women - all women, anywhere and everywhere. Talk to them as you would another human being. Stop trying to impress them or seduce them.
If this is not easy for you to do, start by talking to women you're not attracted to - as mentioned above.
And start by simply saying "Hi" or "Hello."
Do not worry about how they respond. Just do it - with a friendly smile. And, instead of letting their response affect you emotionally, simply observe what they do or say.
Think of it as a social experiment. Imagine the entire world is your laboratory.
Remember, your goal here is not to attract or seduce her. It's to simply get your mind (and body) to become comfortable with the idea of talking to women.
It's a gradual process, so don't force it too much. And, don't beat yourself up over it either.
Just think of it as practice. Any sport or activity that you want to get good at requires practice. And, at first it may seem slow-going, but things will pick up speed as you continue working and putting in the time.
So, just do it, and forget about the results for now. (Just think of it as a social experiment, as I mentioned earlier.)
Say "Hi" or Hello" to random strangers for a week, wherever you see them.
Then, add "How are you?" and do that for another week. (If they start talking to you, then obviously respond in like.)
Then, for the next week, try to have (read: initiate) an actual conversation with them for at least a minute or two. (Talk about the weather, their cool hat, or whatever. Just get used to the idea of talking to strangers.)
The more comfortable you become with doing this, the better, and more positively, they will respond to you. And, this constant, upward cycle will continue to feed itself - as you become more comfortable and competent.
And of course, learn from each experience. Remember to pay attention to as much of what's going on as possible. (This will also force you to get out of your own head and focus your attention on them. That's a good thing.)
Remember, don't take anything they say or do personally, but pay attention to the process. And, use that to improve your conversation skills for approaching complete strangers and getting them to open up to you.
Only after you have become comfortable with the process can you start adding (and using) some conversation techniques to your strategy.
Remember, what we discussed earlier... the mindset needs to be fixed first; techniques come later.
Why Jerks Get All The Women, While Nice Guys Sleep Alone . . .
Why Jerks Get All The Women, While Nice Guys Sleep Alone . . .
Have you ever wondered why men who are arrogant - and even jerks or sleazeballs - seem to always have a hot girlfriend (or at least get to have sex on a regular basis,) while all the nice guys are usually alone or even lonely?
Why are so many women drawn to these jerks, even when these men often treat women like dirt?
Surely, these women must be pretty stupid to date jerks while there are so many nice guys out there, right?
Well, there's more to it than that. And, you will attract a lot more women if you take the time to really find out why women date jerks, instead of just assuming that they are stupid for doing so.
Women are not stupid for being attracted to jerks. They are not stupid for dating jerks either. And, I'll explain why this is so... so that you can use it to your advantage.
Side note: Women are stupid for continuing to date a jerk after she realizes that he's a jerk. But, that's an article for another day.
So, what is it that women find so attractive about arrogant men, jerks, or even straight up sleazeballs? And, how can you use those qualities to attract women to you?
See, women are used to guys coming up to them, being nice and polite...or being shy and nervous...or using those lame, tired pickup lines that they've heard a thousand times.
Most guys who approach women do one or more of the things listed above. And all of those things are bad. Because, women are bored by all of that - since most men who approach her are always doing those same things.
So... when she gets approached by a "jerk," it is different, it is refreshing, and it is exciting - at least for her.
A jerk doesn't really care what others want or like. He's only interested in himself and his own happiness. So, he doesn't care if the woman rejects him or says no. If she does, he will simply call her a bitch and move on to the next girl.
So, a jerk walks up to a woman with that kind of an "I don't give a damn" attitude. And, to the woman, he appears confident, bold and in charge! (Women are very attracted to confident men. It is also the opposite of what most men are like, in her experience. So, she's all for it.)
A jerk doesn't seem like he cares about a woman's approval. And, once again, women find that attractive about him.
A jerk also doesn't put up with any of the woman's crap, attitude, or bitchiness. He is also quick to put a woman in her place when she's out of line.
And, believe it or not, women are attracted to all of those things! (Mainly because most of the other guys who approach her don't do any of those things.)
Now, keep in mind... a jerk isn't doing all those "confident and bold" things to impress women. He's doing all those things because he's a selfish bastard. He's doing it because he just doesn't care about the woman all that much.
But, women don't know this! They simply assume that he's just a confident, secure and "manly" man who won't take her shit, unlike most of the other spineless men she meets. (It's only later that she will find out that this bold and confident guy is really just a jerk.)
In other words, women often mistake jerks for being real men. The kind of man they're attracted to. And, can you blame them really? Especially when most of the other guys that approach her are always kissing up to her, being nice, agreeing with everything she says, never offering their own opinions about anything, never questioning anything she says or does, etc?
A jerk appears attractive to women because he is not afraid to speak his mind. And, if a woman tries to boss him around or be unreasonable, he will not hesitate to tell her off or put her in her place.
And, since women mistake jerks for being real men, they are often found dating these jerks, while all the nice guys out there are alone, and usually lonely.
So, how can you use this knowledge to attract women without becoming a jerk?
Easy.
Take the "good parts" from the jerk personality, and incorporate them into your own attitude.
For starters, don't take women so seriously, especially when you are attracted to them and want to ask them out.
Be playful, poke a little fun at them occasionally - and even be a little cocky at times.
Don't always be so nice and agreeable to everything she does and says. Show her that you have a mind of your own. And that you have opinions!
And, if you don't completely agree with something she says, don't pretend that you do. That will only work against you.
Now, remember... all of the above has to be done in a playful and friendly way. You obviously don't want to become a jerk. You want to become better than jerks.
Finally, don't ever get hung up on just one woman...no matter how beautiful she may seem to be. (A jerk will simply walk up to the next woman and chat her up, immediately after he gets rejected by the first woman. Because he simply doesn't care.)
If you get hung up on - or obsessed with - one particular woman, you will automatically slip into that desperate, needy behavior...where you will try to please her all the time by being too nice, too butt-kissy, and too accomodating.
In other words, you will start doing all those things that most of the "nice" guys do. And, the woman will start to get turned off by all of that.
Putting a woman on a pedestal never works out well for guys.
Keep the above tips in mind and you will start to become a lot more attractive to beautiful women everywhere.
Have you ever wondered why men who are arrogant - and even jerks or sleazeballs - seem to always have a hot girlfriend (or at least get to have sex on a regular basis,) while all the nice guys are usually alone or even lonely?
Why are so many women drawn to these jerks, even when these men often treat women like dirt?
Surely, these women must be pretty stupid to date jerks while there are so many nice guys out there, right?
Well, there's more to it than that. And, you will attract a lot more women if you take the time to really find out why women date jerks, instead of just assuming that they are stupid for doing so.
Women are not stupid for being attracted to jerks. They are not stupid for dating jerks either. And, I'll explain why this is so... so that you can use it to your advantage.
Side note: Women are stupid for continuing to date a jerk after she realizes that he's a jerk. But, that's an article for another day.
So, what is it that women find so attractive about arrogant men, jerks, or even straight up sleazeballs? And, how can you use those qualities to attract women to you?
See, women are used to guys coming up to them, being nice and polite...or being shy and nervous...or using those lame, tired pickup lines that they've heard a thousand times.
Most guys who approach women do one or more of the things listed above. And all of those things are bad. Because, women are bored by all of that - since most men who approach her are always doing those same things.
So... when she gets approached by a "jerk," it is different, it is refreshing, and it is exciting - at least for her.
A jerk doesn't really care what others want or like. He's only interested in himself and his own happiness. So, he doesn't care if the woman rejects him or says no. If she does, he will simply call her a bitch and move on to the next girl.
So, a jerk walks up to a woman with that kind of an "I don't give a damn" attitude. And, to the woman, he appears confident, bold and in charge! (Women are very attracted to confident men. It is also the opposite of what most men are like, in her experience. So, she's all for it.)
A jerk doesn't seem like he cares about a woman's approval. And, once again, women find that attractive about him.
A jerk also doesn't put up with any of the woman's crap, attitude, or bitchiness. He is also quick to put a woman in her place when she's out of line.
And, believe it or not, women are attracted to all of those things! (Mainly because most of the other guys who approach her don't do any of those things.)
Now, keep in mind... a jerk isn't doing all those "confident and bold" things to impress women. He's doing all those things because he's a selfish bastard. He's doing it because he just doesn't care about the woman all that much.
But, women don't know this! They simply assume that he's just a confident, secure and "manly" man who won't take her shit, unlike most of the other spineless men she meets. (It's only later that she will find out that this bold and confident guy is really just a jerk.)
In other words, women often mistake jerks for being real men. The kind of man they're attracted to. And, can you blame them really? Especially when most of the other guys that approach her are always kissing up to her, being nice, agreeing with everything she says, never offering their own opinions about anything, never questioning anything she says or does, etc?
A jerk appears attractive to women because he is not afraid to speak his mind. And, if a woman tries to boss him around or be unreasonable, he will not hesitate to tell her off or put her in her place.
And, since women mistake jerks for being real men, they are often found dating these jerks, while all the nice guys out there are alone, and usually lonely.
So, how can you use this knowledge to attract women without becoming a jerk?
Easy.
Take the "good parts" from the jerk personality, and incorporate them into your own attitude.
For starters, don't take women so seriously, especially when you are attracted to them and want to ask them out.
Be playful, poke a little fun at them occasionally - and even be a little cocky at times.
Don't always be so nice and agreeable to everything she does and says. Show her that you have a mind of your own. And that you have opinions!
And, if you don't completely agree with something she says, don't pretend that you do. That will only work against you.
Now, remember... all of the above has to be done in a playful and friendly way. You obviously don't want to become a jerk. You want to become better than jerks.
Finally, don't ever get hung up on just one woman...no matter how beautiful she may seem to be. (A jerk will simply walk up to the next woman and chat her up, immediately after he gets rejected by the first woman. Because he simply doesn't care.)
If you get hung up on - or obsessed with - one particular woman, you will automatically slip into that desperate, needy behavior...where you will try to please her all the time by being too nice, too butt-kissy, and too accomodating.
In other words, you will start doing all those things that most of the "nice" guys do. And, the woman will start to get turned off by all of that.
Putting a woman on a pedestal never works out well for guys.
Keep the above tips in mind and you will start to become a lot more attractive to beautiful women everywhere.
Why Women Are 'Bitches' And How to Charm Their Pants Off
Why Women Are 'Bitches' And How to Charm Their Pants Off
The average guy believes that most women are mean, cruel, angry bitches.
He believes so because this is how most women seem to treat him whenever he tries to talk to and/or ask them out on a date. He also believes that the hotter a woman is, the more of a bitch she seems to be.
So, let's get to the bottom of this...
Are most women really cold, mean, heartless bitches?
Well... yes, and no.
The truth is, most women aren't really cold, heartless bitches who get a kick out of shooting men down or making them run off like a scared little child. (Yes, some women do tend to do this for fun. But, we are not interested in those women - and we won't discuss those women in this article.)
So, why is it that so many women out there - especially the "hot" ones - tend to treat most guys like dirt?
Why is it that they seem to turn down, shoot down, make fun of, embarrass or even verbally abuse men who try to talk to them or pick them up?
The answer may surprise you...
In order to understand why women react in such a way to most guys (the keyword being "most" guys,) you have to step into a woman's shoes for a moment.
Even a moderately good-looking woman gets approached by men at least 3-5 times per day. Make that 10 times-per-day if she's at the gym, out running, etc.
And, double that if she's out on a weekend, especially at night, and especially in a bar/club setting.
Now, multiply that by 7, for the entire week...which gets her to deal with being approached by guys about 21 - 70 times per week. Every week!
In a month, that number becomes 84 - 280 times that she gets approached by a guy who's trying to talk to her, ask her out, get her number, etc. And, these are conservative numbers! It's actually a lot worse, and gets even worse depending on how "hot" the woman seems to be.
This has been happening to a woman every single day that she leaves her home, since she was about 13-15 years of age.
And most of the time, the guy would walk up to her with the same worn out, tired pick-up line that she's heard a million times before. Nothing original, nothing even mildly different or interesting at all.
Now... are you beginning to see why even an average-looking woman could seem to get annoyed, upset or even angry at most guys who approach her - day in and day out?
Can you see why she would very quickly develop her own set of one-liners and smart remarks to cut men off left and right, in the quickest and harshest way possible?
Wouldn't you do the same if you were continously approached by boring guys with weak pickup lines every single day...ever since the day you started developing breasts? (If you were a girl, obviously.)
Look...if she didn't shoot men down in this way...if she actually stopped to chat with every boring guy who walked up to her and tried to start a conversation with her, she would never get anywhere!
A huge chunk of her day would be wasted on trying to politely turn down most of these guys who'd approach her. (And many of those guys would come back the next day, to try to pick her up again.)
So, she has to constantly walk around with her "bitch shield" up - to protect her from the never-ending herd of boring, desperate, needy guys.
She has to do this. She has to appear mean, cruel, cold, heartless, i.e. a bitch, according to most guys who try to talk to her.
And yes, the hotter she is, the more she would get hit on by men - and the more of a bitch she will have to appear to be.
Okay... now you know why she appears to be a bitch to most guys. And, that understanding alone has already put you giant steps ahead of most guys out there.
The thing is...these so-called "bitches" do still date some guys, don't they? They do still have sex with guys. You've seen these same 'hot' women with men, often average-looking men.
So, obvioulsy, some guys are able to slip under (or break through) her "bitch shield" and attract her. And, there's no reason why you can't be one of those guys.
The way to do that is to stop being like every other guy out there. And stop doing what every other guy does out there, when approaching women.
That means, stop using those same ol', tired pick-up line that she's heard a million times before. (You can't walk up to her and tell her how pretty she is and/or if she would give you her number. That will almost never work.)
Show her that you're a different kind of man, from the very first moment that you interact with her.
That also means, dress a little differently than most guys. Do not try to fit in with the masses. If most guys are wearing jeans and a t-shirt, you shouldn't be. If most guys are wearing sneakers and/or running shoes, you shouldn't be.
Just be different.
And, don't just act like you are different. Actually start changing your attitude and your wardrobe.
That simple little change alone will make you more attractive in women's eyes.
The average guy believes that most women are mean, cruel, angry bitches.
He believes so because this is how most women seem to treat him whenever he tries to talk to and/or ask them out on a date. He also believes that the hotter a woman is, the more of a bitch she seems to be.
So, let's get to the bottom of this...
Are most women really cold, mean, heartless bitches?
Well... yes, and no.
The truth is, most women aren't really cold, heartless bitches who get a kick out of shooting men down or making them run off like a scared little child. (Yes, some women do tend to do this for fun. But, we are not interested in those women - and we won't discuss those women in this article.)
So, why is it that so many women out there - especially the "hot" ones - tend to treat most guys like dirt?
Why is it that they seem to turn down, shoot down, make fun of, embarrass or even verbally abuse men who try to talk to them or pick them up?
The answer may surprise you...
In order to understand why women react in such a way to most guys (the keyword being "most" guys,) you have to step into a woman's shoes for a moment.
Even a moderately good-looking woman gets approached by men at least 3-5 times per day. Make that 10 times-per-day if she's at the gym, out running, etc.
And, double that if she's out on a weekend, especially at night, and especially in a bar/club setting.
Now, multiply that by 7, for the entire week...which gets her to deal with being approached by guys about 21 - 70 times per week. Every week!
In a month, that number becomes 84 - 280 times that she gets approached by a guy who's trying to talk to her, ask her out, get her number, etc. And, these are conservative numbers! It's actually a lot worse, and gets even worse depending on how "hot" the woman seems to be.
This has been happening to a woman every single day that she leaves her home, since she was about 13-15 years of age.
And most of the time, the guy would walk up to her with the same worn out, tired pick-up line that she's heard a million times before. Nothing original, nothing even mildly different or interesting at all.
Now... are you beginning to see why even an average-looking woman could seem to get annoyed, upset or even angry at most guys who approach her - day in and day out?
Can you see why she would very quickly develop her own set of one-liners and smart remarks to cut men off left and right, in the quickest and harshest way possible?
Wouldn't you do the same if you were continously approached by boring guys with weak pickup lines every single day...ever since the day you started developing breasts? (If you were a girl, obviously.)
Look...if she didn't shoot men down in this way...if she actually stopped to chat with every boring guy who walked up to her and tried to start a conversation with her, she would never get anywhere!
A huge chunk of her day would be wasted on trying to politely turn down most of these guys who'd approach her. (And many of those guys would come back the next day, to try to pick her up again.)
So, she has to constantly walk around with her "bitch shield" up - to protect her from the never-ending herd of boring, desperate, needy guys.
She has to do this. She has to appear mean, cruel, cold, heartless, i.e. a bitch, according to most guys who try to talk to her.
And yes, the hotter she is, the more she would get hit on by men - and the more of a bitch she will have to appear to be.
Okay... now you know why she appears to be a bitch to most guys. And, that understanding alone has already put you giant steps ahead of most guys out there.
The thing is...these so-called "bitches" do still date some guys, don't they? They do still have sex with guys. You've seen these same 'hot' women with men, often average-looking men.
So, obvioulsy, some guys are able to slip under (or break through) her "bitch shield" and attract her. And, there's no reason why you can't be one of those guys.
The way to do that is to stop being like every other guy out there. And stop doing what every other guy does out there, when approaching women.
That means, stop using those same ol', tired pick-up line that she's heard a million times before. (You can't walk up to her and tell her how pretty she is and/or if she would give you her number. That will almost never work.)
Show her that you're a different kind of man, from the very first moment that you interact with her.
That also means, dress a little differently than most guys. Do not try to fit in with the masses. If most guys are wearing jeans and a t-shirt, you shouldn't be. If most guys are wearing sneakers and/or running shoes, you shouldn't be.
Just be different.
And, don't just act like you are different. Actually start changing your attitude and your wardrobe.
That simple little change alone will make you more attractive in women's eyes.
My problem is I'm lonely and no one likes me
My problem is I'm lonely and no one likes me 2014-03-23 00:01:15I am ignored if I go out. Anyone I try to talk to rejects me. I think I'm ugly.Ok here's a detail 2014-03-23 00:00:34people i dont know anymore keep talking shit hoping ill post their name here so theyll get a good rep for being on the popular side of beat down."To is or nigga naught to IS.... MahRofoHandel2014-03-22 23:59:51dat'z iz the question I'm axin' yooo." -- Negro Shakespeare I'm an extremist when it comes to gun rights. Illustratedmind2014-03-22 23:59:12It's either no guns or transforming mecha practically built out of them. All or nothing violence.What I learned from rofo.... 2014-03-22 23:58:54Drunks over 60 like Cosby. Old rich guys are easy to find in Reno. Purple rain is a pole smoking tune.whatevs 2014-03-22 23:58:38I actually hope you continue as you are. You should never breed.To provide the requested banter that was CantankerousCunt2014-03-22 23:58:26implied in your posting. Unless you didn't want feedback. In which case, I amend my reply to "That's nice, lions" ^^ here here, I second that § MahRofoHandel2014-03-22 23:57:56i hope you're sterile § 2014-03-22 23:57:43Fuck, I don't know. Illustratedmind2014-03-22 23:56:55Buy a really big robot that's covered in guns. That solves most problems.I need details § CantankerousCunt2014-03-22 23:56:14I gotta do something about my problem 2014-03-22 23:55:13ok but there's no starting over that's obvious. I gotta deal with what I thought I was going to leave in the past. But where is there anywhere to make a move? If I do something drastic who's not going to see me? Who's not already a part of somebody else's scheme that excludes me specifically? So who is going to be on my side? But I don't like just sitting here either. I just think about how hopeless this bullshit is. sacNo but Walkin_Softly2014-03-22 23:54:51I have a very large bone structure & a lot of muscle mass. At 170, I would look like a graduate of Auschwitz. & I'm not 100% sure about 3rd grade but I know I was 190 in 5th. I used to fight my classmates 5 at a time. actually, I'd probably be okay with it 2014-03-22 23:54:18as long as he didn't beat me or anythingI cannot go down this path with you, my friend § CantankerousCunt2014-03-22 23:52:49i know § 2014-03-22 23:52:28rnoso sad that you're this hard up for attention 2014-03-22 23:52:06and can't get it in real life. I'll only tell you this once: your path leads to lonely death.rnoIf I didn't mind, then it wasn't rape § CantankerousCunt2014-03-22 23:51:16I'm so cute, kittens hang calendars with pics of § me-on-their-walls2014-03-22 23:50:12...and she dropped out of college again. chips_and_salsa2014-03-22 23:50:06I just looked it up. According to the wiki on the show, Theo was studying psychology, for what it's worth, which isn't a paying degree at the bachelor's level. Anyway, what's the point of all this? I'd agree that he pressed the kids on the show to go to college, but that's not the same as dictating that there are two acceptable fields of study. Expecting that your kid will get a degree in something that will pay out on the other side doesn't seem to be such a radical notion to me.rnoYou demonstrate, then I'll try it. § Walkin_Softly2014-03-22 23:49:03sacWell, the standard chart used to say I should Walkin_Softly2014-03-22 23:48:19weigh 170 Lbs. That is a bullshit standard if there ever was one. Plus, I'm not really okay with the idea of going back to the 3rd grade. rnooh yeah, that. I change my answer § CantankerousCunt2014-03-22 23:47:09sacThat depends on what your idea of normal is. Walkin_Softly2014-03-22 23:44:17I want to be at 220 but that won't happen for a few months. I disagree vehemently § 2014-03-22 23:42:23Was Theo studing to be a teacher? chips_and_salsa2014-03-22 23:41:44Denise dropped out of college twice on the show, and Theo wasn't in a paying field... I don't think any of the characters did what you're saying...sacNext month I'm climbing Half Dome again & I've Walkin_Softly2014-03-22 23:41:26signed up to run a marathon. I'm going to hold you to your promise. I dont think hed make 20...he doesnt hold up ---2014-03-22 23:39:47like others have like Carlinmy brother just called 2014-03-22 23:39:20collect from the travis county jail drunk fucker.....guess i better go bail him out brbsaci will lick your balls when you're within 2014-03-22 23:39:14your weight range for your height, and you can run at least 2 miles without almost dying
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rnolol i like that § LickingScrotum2014-03-22 20:00:43i smell you long time § 2014-03-22 20:00:29rnoi found a nice, jewish guy online but he is LickingScrotum2014-03-22 20:00:28in roseville which is an hour and 45 minutes away. he said it's too far to make a relationship work :(rnoi give up, what? § 2014-03-22 20:00:08I likes them Jew pheasants. § pohsxob2014-03-22 19:59:40some women are intimidated by how handsome 2014-03-22 19:59:25I am and it makes them act weirdrnoi think its a good stop but not that halfway § LickingScrotum2014-03-22 19:58:18Life without frontiers: How I redesigned my dick § 2014-03-22 19:57:42rnoI lived in both those cities so I would say athole2014-03-22 19:57:08Truckeei was a jew peasant § LickingScrotum2014-03-22 19:56:34I was Lizzy Borden § 2014-03-22 19:56:18I was Andrew Jackson Borden § 2014-03-22 19:55:47i already think you're weird § 2014-03-22 19:55:20yikes. I was a soldier. § 2014-03-22 19:55:17I believe in a past life I may have been a-famous-2014-03-22 19:54:54murder victim. I really do believe it could be true. I have very good reasons for considering this. I don't want to say who I think it was because you'd think I'm very weird.WOW I'll come back later. There's too many TWISTERwondrauti2014-03-22 19:54:50stupid assholes in here.ask this guy Kodai2014-03-22 19:54:20http://ift.tt/Q2O7sS A father is facing charges of indecent exposure after he was spotted making a cup of coffee in the nude – in his own home. Eric Williamson, from Springfield, Virginia, was brewing coffee in his kitchen when a woman and a seven-year-old boy walked past the window and saw him. The woman complained to police who arrested Williamson shortly after the Monday morning incident. Williamson said: ‘Yes I wasn’t wearing any clothes but I was alone, in my own home and just got out of bed. 'It was dark and I had no idea anyone was outside looking in at me.’ Williamson, who has a five-year-old daughter, said: ‘I am a loving dad. Any of my friends and anyone knows that and there is not a chance on this planet I would ever, ever, ever do anything like that to a kid.' A spokesman at Fairfax County Police says Williamson was arrested because officers believed he wanted to be seen naked by the public. only when i watch it but picture the faces of 2014-03-22 19:54:01george washington and russell brand on the porn stars' bodiesqat is parrot. sb wants qat's cock 2014-03-22 19:53:59i'm "parrot" lol < qathedral > 01/07 20:13:29 http://ift.tt/1hyHKa1No, I find porn in general to be pathetic. § 2014-03-22 19:53:33Fun. I'd be roadside with a gas can § Shinygetter2014-03-22 19:52:39depends how horny i am 2014-03-22 19:52:23and how much cash i need at any given moment. life is dynamic. that's what keeps it fun.sfoi thought qat was parrot. § 2014-03-22 19:52:21sfoI'll drink it maybe twice a month 1974raidergurrl2014-03-22 19:51:58but if I'm gonna drink it I'm gonna drink the good stuff. I just can't stand the taste of anything diet :-/sfoI see these names ALL the time yet have no 2014-03-22 19:51:49idea who they FUCK you people are talking aboutI've been feeling things very intensely recently 2014-03-22 19:51:40I've always been a reserved person, but lately I get intensely joyful and intensely sad or introspective. Am I just opening up or am I just going crazy?sfoI would sometime if it still had cocaine in it. § 2014-03-22 19:51:30LOL. You're insane. cherritop2014-03-22 19:49:58I'm not invested enough in rofo to be here all the time.ILike this guy but get painfully shy around him. 2014-03-22 19:49:07Do you think if I just show up and put myself in his vicinity frequently enough hell eventually talk to me? how can one be arrested for walking naked in Shinygetter2014-03-22 19:48:45Their home, if they don't have children? Are you saying that if I drop my towel between my room and the bathroom while alone, I can get arrested? Link please.
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I was pulled by the momentum, and you 2014-03-22 15:53:18were also socially ostracized if you quit. I guess I didn't have the balls.15k years ago, why you ask ? 2014-03-22 15:52:43because we actually had freedom back then, and after many decades of living, I realize that's the only thing that matters in life, that gives Life its flavor, it's sweet fragrance. I don't mind hardship, but not having real Freedom destroys you from the inside. I almost yelled at the 'mon' to stop barking 2014-03-22 15:52:31but I don't know her name, only the dog's nanme.great question. 15,000 years ago for sure 2014-03-22 15:52:28but I get to pick where: Somewhere in present day lebanon, on the coast.Elvis! I knew you weren't dead § TripleDashGreen2014-03-22 15:52:15see? 2014-03-22 15:52:14i knew you are a liarI wanna fuck her after he does § 2014-03-22 15:52:13I was sexting some girl from a dating site 2014-03-22 15:51:49said I wanted to push her up against the wall. fondle her breasts while sucking on her lower lip. and slip my pre-cum covered dick into her raw pussy. she liked it.i'm not over 40 :\ § 2014-03-22 15:51:40nyc1985 called and said airheadearl2014-03-22 15:51:19I'm back motherfuckersnycok later i don't have any paper near me § -op-2014-03-22 15:50:59nycI like them § TripleDashGreen2014-03-22 15:50:55I know man and I'm not missing any appendages 2014-03-22 15:50:47and I'm thankful for that, for sure. But there's a difference in the way people treat you you know? I feel gross instead of disabled. And I'm glad I'm not disabled, but I'm there are handicaps. FEMME LATINA SEEKING WHITE/ASIAN FEMME WOMEN HAWG_CALLER2014-03-22 15:50:05 FEMME LATINA SEEKING WHITE/ASIAN FEMME WOMEN OVER 40 (millbrae-fremont ) EAT THIS TACO eye color : Brown hair : Blonde height : 5'2" (157cm) ethnicity : Latina zodiac : ♌ leo status : single drinks : rarely Title says it all. She must be femme, successful, kind, loving, little nerdy, a bit high maintenance, supportive, caring, loves 80s music, cooking, shopping, wine and karaoke. I enjoy cooking, shopping, karaoke, 80s music, wine tasting, and dancing. •do NOT contact me with unsolicited services or offers sdoI'm not here with them......just passing by § TripleDashGreen2014-03-22 15:49:03Oh. My BF was kind of introverted and his 2014-03-22 15:48:52frat brothers seem to still be okay with him. Of course they all drank like fish which I guess creates a bond. There is nothing quite like fetching someone who spent the night wandering around drunk to create a sense of camaraderie. Why the heck didn't you quit the frat if you were that unhappy?nycyeah i put it up on pinterest 2014-03-22 15:47:33so what?I mean all in all the wall is 10 miles high 2014-03-22 15:46:38and I used to just think I needed to find a sturdy ladder. Now I need a helicopter.I agree with you 2014-03-22 15:46:35I can't believe there's that much bullshit and drama out there. It wasn't this stupid when I was in high school. WTF happened?!?!?I always figure there are people much worse off richwaitress2014-03-22 15:46:20I hope I am rightThat was nice of you to do :) 2014-03-22 15:45:29Can I ask why?fuck your legs, sweetheart MahRofoHandel2014-03-22 15:44:24you need to repay me for all the free shit I gave you I'd ♥ to lick your twat. § 2014-03-22 15:43:16I was about to smoke my last cigarette for the -day2014-03-22 15:42:42and it was all wet and stale when i pulled it out. Now my day is all crappy.so 2014-03-22 15:42:07you'll be here tonight I take it.sfoI'm glad I'm married. § 2014-03-22 15:41:55lol, they hated me and nah, zero job 2014-03-22 15:41:49impact. I was quiet and negative and hated.sfoNah, if the girl is hot and fun I'll put 2014-03-22 15:41:20in the effort.Maybe but they could now be good references -2014-03-22 15:41:13for things and I bet they remember you fondly.sfoI'd have to hire a really great network guy -2014-03-22 15:40:43just to hope I can do that.
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