Why Jerks Get All The Women, While Nice Guys Sleep Alone . . .

Why Jerks Get All The Women, While Nice Guys Sleep Alone . . .
Have you ever wondered why men who are arrogant - and even jerks or sleazeballs - seem to always have a hot girlfriend (or at least get to have sex on a regular basis,) while all the nice guys are usually alone or even lonely?
Why are so many women drawn to these jerks, even when these men often treat women like dirt?
Surely, these women must be pretty stupid to date jerks while there are so many nice guys out there, right?
Well, there's more to it than that. And, you will attract a lot more women if you take the time to really find out why women date jerks, instead of just assuming that they are stupid for doing so.
Women are not stupid for being attracted to jerks. They are not stupid for dating jerks either. And, I'll explain why this is so... so that you can use it to your advantage.
Side note: Women are stupid for continuing to date a jerk after she realizes that he's a jerk. But, that's an article for another day.
So, what is it that women find so attractive about arrogant men, jerks, or even straight up sleazeballs? And, how can you use those qualities to attract women to you?
See, women are used to guys coming up to them, being nice and polite...or being shy and nervous...or using those lame, tired pickup lines that they've heard a thousand times.
Most guys who approach women do one or more of the things listed above. And all of those things are bad. Because, women are bored by all of that - since most men who approach her are always doing those same things.
So... when she gets approached by a "jerk," it is different, it is refreshing, and it is exciting - at least for her.
A jerk doesn't really care what others want or like. He's only interested in himself and his own happiness. So, he doesn't care if the woman rejects him or says no. If she does, he will simply call her a bitch and move on to the next girl.
So, a jerk walks up to a woman with that kind of an "I don't give a damn" attitude. And, to the woman, he appears confident, bold and in charge! (Women are very attracted to confident men. It is also the opposite of what most men are like, in her experience. So, she's all for it.)
A jerk doesn't seem like he cares about a woman's approval. And, once again, women find that attractive about him.
A jerk also doesn't put up with any of the woman's crap, attitude, or bitchiness. He is also quick to put a woman in her place when she's out of line.
And, believe it or not, women are attracted to all of those things! (Mainly because most of the other guys who approach her don't do any of those things.)
Now, keep in mind... a jerk isn't doing all those "confident and bold" things to impress women. He's doing all those things because he's a selfish bastard. He's doing it because he just doesn't care about the woman all that much.
But, women don't know this! They simply assume that he's just a confident, secure and "manly" man who won't take her shit, unlike most of the other spineless men she meets. (It's only later that she will find out that this bold and confident guy is really just a jerk.)

In other words, women often mistake jerks for being real men. The kind of man they're attracted to. And, can you blame them really? Especially when most of the other guys that approach her are always kissing up to her, being nice, agreeing with everything she says, never offering their own opinions about anything, never questioning anything she says or does, etc?
A jerk appears attractive to women because he is not afraid to speak his mind. And, if a woman tries to boss him around or be unreasonable, he will not hesitate to tell her off or put her in her place.
And, since women mistake jerks for being real men, they are often found dating these jerks, while all the nice guys out there are alone, and usually lonely.
So, how can you use this knowledge to attract women without becoming a jerk?
Easy.
Take the "good parts" from the jerk personality, and incorporate them into your own attitude.
For starters, don't take women so seriously, especially when you are attracted to them and want to ask them out.
Be playful, poke a little fun at them occasionally - and even be a little cocky at times.
Don't always be so nice and agreeable to everything she does and says. Show her that you have a mind of your own. And that you have opinions!
And, if you don't completely agree with something she says, don't pretend that you do. That will only work against you.
Now, remember... all of the above has to be done in a playful and friendly way. You obviously don't want to become a jerk. You want to become better than jerks.
Finally, don't ever get hung up on just one woman...no matter how beautiful she may seem to be. (A jerk will simply walk up to the next woman and chat her up, immediately after he gets rejected by the first woman. Because he simply doesn't care.)
If you get hung up on - or obsessed with - one particular woman, you will automatically slip into that desperate, needy behavior...where you will try to please her all the time by being too nice, too butt-kissy, and too accomodating.
In other words, you will start doing all those things that most of the "nice" guys do. And, the woman will start to get turned off by all of that.
Putting a woman on a pedestal never works out well for guys.
Keep the above tips in mind and you will start to become a lot more attractive to beautiful women everywhere.