Why Women Are 'Bitches' And How to Charm Their Pants Off
The average guy believes that most women are mean, cruel, angry bitches.
He believes so because this is how most women seem to treat him whenever he tries to talk to and/or ask them out on a date. He also believes that the hotter a woman is, the more of a bitch she seems to be.
So, let's get to the bottom of this...
Are most women really cold, mean, heartless bitches?
Well... yes, and no.
The truth is, most women aren't really cold, heartless bitches who get a kick out of shooting men down or making them run off like a scared little child. (Yes, some women do tend to do this for fun. But, we are not interested in those women - and we won't discuss those women in this article.)
So, why is it that so many women out there - especially the "hot" ones - tend to treat most guys like dirt?
Why is it that they seem to turn down, shoot down, make fun of, embarrass or even verbally abuse men who try to talk to them or pick them up?
The answer may surprise you...
In order to understand why women react in such a way to most guys (the keyword being "most" guys,) you have to step into a woman's shoes for a moment.
Even a moderately good-looking woman gets approached by men at least 3-5 times per day. Make that 10 times-per-day if she's at the gym, out running, etc.
And, double that if she's out on a weekend, especially at night, and especially in a bar/club setting.
Now, multiply that by 7, for the entire week...which gets her to deal with being approached by guys about 21 - 70 times per week. Every week!
In a month, that number becomes 84 - 280 times that she gets approached by a guy who's trying to talk to her, ask her out, get her number, etc. And, these are conservative numbers! It's actually a lot worse, and gets even worse depending on how "hot" the woman seems to be.
This has been happening to a woman every single day that she leaves her home, since she was about 13-15 years of age.
And most of the time, the guy would walk up to her with the same worn out, tired pick-up line that she's heard a million times before. Nothing original, nothing even mildly different or interesting at all.
Now... are you beginning to see why even an average-looking woman could seem to get annoyed, upset or even angry at most guys who approach her - day in and day out?
Can you see why she would very quickly develop her own set of one-liners and smart remarks to cut men off left and right, in the quickest and harshest way possible?
Wouldn't you do the same if you were continously approached by boring guys with weak pickup lines every single day...ever since the day you started developing breasts? (If you were a girl, obviously.)
Look...if she didn't shoot men down in this way...if she actually stopped to chat with every boring guy who walked up to her and tried to start a conversation with her, she would never get anywhere!
A huge chunk of her day would be wasted on trying to politely turn down most of these guys who'd approach her. (And many of those guys would come back the next day, to try to pick her up again.)
So, she has to constantly walk around with her "bitch shield" up - to protect her from the never-ending herd of boring, desperate, needy guys.
She has to do this. She has to appear mean, cruel, cold, heartless, i.e. a bitch, according to most guys who try to talk to her.
And yes, the hotter she is, the more she would get hit on by men - and the more of a bitch she will have to appear to be.
Okay... now you know why she appears to be a bitch to most guys. And, that understanding alone has already put you giant steps ahead of most guys out there.
The thing is...these so-called "bitches" do still date some guys, don't they? They do still have sex with guys. You've seen these same 'hot' women with men, often average-looking men.
So, obvioulsy, some guys are able to slip under (or break through) her "bitch shield" and attract her. And, there's no reason why you can't be one of those guys.
The way to do that is to stop being like every other guy out there. And stop doing what every other guy does out there, when approaching women.
That means, stop using those same ol', tired pick-up line that she's heard a million times before. (You can't walk up to her and tell her how pretty she is and/or if she would give you her number. That will almost never work.)
Show her that you're a different kind of man, from the very first moment that you interact with her.
That also means, dress a little differently than most guys. Do not try to fit in with the masses. If most guys are wearing jeans and a t-shirt, you shouldn't be. If most guys are wearing sneakers and/or running shoes, you shouldn't be.
Just be different.
And, don't just act like you are different. Actually start changing your attitude and your wardrobe.
That simple little change alone will make you more attractive in women's eyes.
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