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boiI have terrible gas :( § 2013-12-17 04:18:57quiThere were some thin, high clouds Duncan_Dickie2013-12-17 04:04:26beneath the level where I could see the nearly-full moon. I got to see a moon rainbow.nycAppreciated! French_Dressing2013-12-17 03:38:44Though I would appreciate the other one even more...Thank you, I will. § 2013-12-17 03:38:32nycI'm only interested in a Vinaigrette § FatherOfTheFetus2013-12-17 03:34:33satFuck I'm tired "and" and "many things" 2013-12-17 03:30:51you know what the fuck I mean. DAMN I'M STUPID! boiYou good sir, are truly welcome! GreenOrGrey2013-12-17 03:30:11It's been my pleasure. Every time I help someone else, I always end up doing a great deal of learning through the process myself, so I have benefited as well, and so I'll also say Thank you! dhnor men either 2013-12-17 03:28:23thought I should correct myself.boiYou just summarized what GreenOrGrey2013-12-17 03:28:07I had been trying to say, in a beautiful nutshell. If you do nothing else from this forum, PRINT OUT THAT POST YOU JUST MADE. Save it, re read it, and take it all to heart. Steel yourself for what may come, and be firm. The most valuable lesson in all of this, is that you already had a beautiful sense of self-care, which a lot of people do not have. But by coming to this last post of yours, you have arrived at a greater self respect and desire to protect your own self-esteem. Well said, and well done. boiThank you for everything! Chemlab2013-12-17 03:24:45Thank you SO MUCH for having this conversation with me and helping me come to an understanding from a different point of view. You don't know how helpful you've been. You're a total stranger, but seriously, I can't describe how thankful I am for what you've said!hvnLOOKING FOR A MAN FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP finewine9992013-12-17 03:22:09I'm sweet, sarcastic, funny, easy to talk to, make friends easily, good listener. Grateful for all my family friends. Looking for a man between the age of 40 to 55 for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage,a man who can make me laugh, hold a conversation, good listener, sarcastic. I'd add more but then there wouldn't be much to converse about....if you are interested,send me a personal email,or add me on here for a chat....angelina_smith099@yahoo.com or angelinaworld@gmail.com boiIt's going to be difficult Chemlab2013-12-17 03:22:07not offering up an explanation, and make no mistake about it, she WILL hurt. I think that's actually a big part of what she's afraid of, guys leaving her, that's possibly why she leaves the guys. But like, I couldn't ever explain it to her, she's very difficult about this kind of thing. So I should be brief (a very difficult thing for me to do) and just not let the inevitably extreme response weaken my resolve.boiSorry, I keep adding on here... GreenOrGrey2013-12-17 03:18:19But I should probably sign off before long and get some much needed rest. boiI might add, though GreenOrGrey2013-12-17 03:16:33that if you are truly and deeply in love with this woman, then you might be capable of spending a lengthy period of time with her while supporting her and trying to help guide her into getting some help. What she may need, however, may take a very long time to counter-act, to a healthy way of thinking and living. boiWell, that depends on GreenOrGrey2013-12-17 03:11:38just what, and how much you have invested in this. If that's only a little, then you could simply say that "I'm sorry to have to say it, but you really aren't able to meet my needs, and I can't meet yours. We need to part ways." or It it's a larger investment, and means more to you, consider giving her a little more information, maybe a little about how you arrived at this point, what you have decided (when you do), and perhaps give her an opportunity to respond, but knowing you won't buy into her crying game of how much she needs you but won't commit to an exclusive healthy relationship with you either. Think it through, and my advice, write it all down. You may re write it several times over time, but you will be clearer in your own heart and mind if you do this. ispAnd I'll probably be right here GreenOrGrey2013-12-17 03:01:52lol'ing all the way! j/k :D boiNow, the only question is, how do I end it? Chemlab2013-12-17 02:54:29What angle should I come to her at? I mean, I still have a lot to think about, don't get me wrong, but if it comes down to it, how do I explain myself and how do I approach it?boiYou know what? You're right... Chemlab2013-12-17 02:51:52She wanted to talk to me every day, she would get really upset and insecure that I wouldn't constantly be texting her, we talked every day over Skype or the phone or what have you, she would get annoyed if we were talking and I was doing something else at the same time (Like playing video games). Then my friend starts hanging around a lot, eventually he moves in, they hang out all the time, now they're cuddling (and probably) all the time, she doesn't really need me as much because he fulfills that need, so we don't talk as often, she used to always request I send her pictures and would send me pictures of her, now she doesn't....I'm not sure how to put it into words exactly, or even what it exactly IS, but there's something there, some kind of pattern...ispoh i know! ladies-first2013-12-17 02:47:25 i'm sure it'll get colder....i'll just bitch more LOLispoooh so nice ladies-first2013-12-17 02:46:01that what i love most...i put up all the bird houses outside the window :o)ispYeah I thought so too. § Flatchy_the_Clown2013-12-17 02:43:26boiSo here's what can be said for sure: Chemlab2013-12-17 02:43:061. She's pretty difficult to get along with and people around her tend to dislike her. (Maybe that's why she brought up the "I have to stand up for her" thing.) 2. She came out of one abusive relationship by starting up a relationship with a domineering person, then she came out from under that guy's grip and soon got into a relationship with one of my (at the time) best friends, then she learned I was leaving New York and she started hanging out with me, soon after, she breaks up with THAT guy and we start hanging out a lot. 3. When we started hanging out again, she did nothing but talk about how she hates relationships, what ruins them (to her) is the obligation. The obligation to hang out with your boyfriend when you're not in the mood, the obligation to offer up emotional support, the obligation to change in ways and to do things that you dont' like in order to accommodate the significant other...etc. 4. I've fucked a lot of people, but I've never been in a relationship, so there are many things which I acknowledge I am likely to be unaware of. 5. She tried a lot (I mean a lot) harder than I ever did to strike up a relationship and keep it going. 6. If she doesn't anymore, at one point in time, not too logn ago, she really, really DID love me. She trusted me way more than she should have about a lot of stuff, for a while, it was just the same old game for me, the one where I get into a girl's pants.ispYou know, it really is the best time GreenOrGrey2013-12-17 02:41:52of the day, I agree. Was in that routine for years, and broke it this year with alternating shifts with my work. I'm hoping that may change soon, and I could get back into rising early, listening to the birds sing as they wake up. ispYeah,, I guess she's gonna live Flatchy_the_Clown2013-12-17 02:39:19but she's gonna be fucked up for the rest of her lifeispright?! ladies-first2013-12-17 02:37:55 i've seen it tooispwhoa dang... GreenOrGrey2013-12-17 02:37:10Ain't alcohol fun! Sick humor, sorry, but I've just seen too much of what can happen to people... isplol...sips coffee ladies-first2013-12-17 02:36:47 i don't have a fireplace :o/ thats the one thing my house didn't have that i wanted..ispfur real story Flatchy_the_Clown2013-12-17 02:34:57College girl in Duluth MN is losing her hands and feet. Came home drunk and went to the wrong house and sat down on the porch and stayed there for 9 hours in -15 degrees. Passerby saw her sitting there and called police. I guess she's breathing now at leastispi feel like this is going to be along winter lol ladies-first2013-12-17 02:34:40i could never live up northispokay...*runs in house* ladies-first2013-12-17 02:33:46 aaah much better but i'm still cold lol

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