I wish. but not practical how we JimTThorpe2013-11-11 03:09:45have things set up. the door to their yard area, we have 2, is a sliding glass door off to a decksdoNo worries trekbetterthenwars2013-11-11 03:09:12Its the internet dude! Its almost impossible to gauge tone, and completely impossible to read body language, and thats 90% of communication. No offense intended, none taken. I do appreciate your answer. If I asked a group of people for opinions and I got the same response, that means I didn't ask the question right.sdoi went through that phase too 2013-11-11 03:04:14but i found no consensus that i was comfortable with using for myself. i had to make my own.. and setting my own rules for my own reasons helped me find people who like that, which means they might like me too, and vice versa. but yeah it's good to get ideas. sorry if i was overly harsh about the caution, glad you understood what i was trying to get at (in my clumsy abrasive way). sdoi view it this way 2013-11-11 03:03:58in social situations: courtsey, respect, friendliness. mix those all up and gauge their reactions and alter your behavior accordingly.I hella crashed. hard. into a pillow § JimTThorpe2013-11-11 03:02:47sdoit's ok to compliment, isn't that part of flirt ing?2013-11-11 02:55:45but you have a point, "beautiful" is a pretty special word, maybe it's better the save something like that for if the intimacy starts building. "pretty" and "cute" are milder terms to me, i wouldn't hesitate to use them in a more casual context, but that's just me.sdoI don't think he's an idiot trekbetterthenwars2013-11-11 02:51:51He is right. There is no algorithm that tells you, "do this, then that, then; if this, do that, if not: do that, then she will have your babies" Each person is different, and should be treated accordingly, from the pretty girl at the end of the bar whose phone number you would like to get, to the annoying guy in your office you hope doesn't ask for you help with something. I can be very socially shy (product of being homeschooled!)so I was wanted to get the prospective of some other people on how they interpret social norms. I'm only 29, but sometimes I feel like I was born in '29 when I am with people that are around my age.sdothis board is hit or miss ada_032013-11-11 02:45:12sometimes you'll get great advice and at other times just a headache. usually i run across pretty great people who're more than willing to lend you their opinions. hopefully you'll have the same good luck!sdoThanks! trekbetterthenwars2013-11-11 02:44:57I agree wholeheartedly that its a phrase that should be saved for someone that you are close with.sdofrom the questions you've been asking, i get the 2013-11-11 02:41:35sense that you are trying to approach your relationships as a matter of conforming to rules or a formula. but people are not formulas and you are not a formula. if one can't make one's own decisions on what is and isn't appropriate, one is not only essentially immoral, but generally unwilling to accept the responsibilities that come with having a body and a mind. which doesn't bode well for the intended relationship(s), rule conformance not withstanding.sdoSuch a shame trekbetterthenwars2013-11-11 02:41:19great insight on my posts. Thanks Now that I know about this message board and the people actually use it, I'll be asking my many, many relationship questions here!sdowell i've noticed ada_032013-11-11 02:37:01that many don't change their behavior for anyone (except maybe grandma). our generation is a crude one.seaNope If I was bitter or parinoid I would 2013-11-11 02:35:25be seeing the pattern in others..but I don't, nope...its the kind of breed she is. seasure I can say what I think...and I 2013-11-11 02:33:39still say it sounds like bragging or complaining and a very self absorbed person....Oh I am sure you know about the details I do to always self focused.lmao ada_032013-11-11 02:33:15so cheesy! i almost expected more of you 5pc...tsk tsk :PsdoAgreed trekbetterthenwars2013-11-11 02:33:10I asked because I was at a poker game with some friends this weekend. At the beginning when it was just the guys pretty much every crude word was in the book was used, many by me. After a while a few of the guys girlfriends showed up, but a lot of the language didn't change. I was shocked how many of the guys there didn't have a "gentleman" switch to flip. Even if a lady is taken she is still a lady and should be treated accordingly. sav Pop my cherry... - 30 (concord / pleasant hill profesorirwincorey2013-11-11 02:33:06 Pop my cherry... - 30 (concord / pleasant hill / martinez) image 1 I want to experience a gorgeous, feminine female. I'm turned on by lace and pearls. Let me fuck you as you fuck me. Teach me what you know. •it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests sdobeautiful is a more intimate term ada_032013-11-11 02:32:14like you're almost complimenting what's on the inside, not just their looks. if you're basing your terminology on appearances alone, i'd go with "pretty, cute, hot".lvg^^^^ YOU ARE MENTALLY ILL profesorirwincorey2013-11-11 02:30:43ADMIT IT ---> looking to go to jail best jail to go drunk drive a bike - 38 (burlingame) Hello and greetings ladies, I would like to try and see what different bay area jails are like. I have never been to jail. So, I would like to see what it is like. I like to drink. I am a trained cook and love to eat. We could drink and eat a lot and then go and ride bikes drunk. We would be intoxicated bicylers. This would be fun. The only draw back would be having to wear cotton panties. I have heard they take you panties away when you arrive and make you wear cotton ones? I hope this is not true. I am open to all ages and races. Please be clean and take care of yourself. Lets go get drunk and peddle. I love beer and cheer. sdo looking to go to jail best jail to go drunk dri profesorirwincorey2013-11-11 02:29:49 looking to go to jail best jail to go drunk drive a bike - 38 (burlingame) Hello and greetings ladies, I would like to try and see what different bay area jails are like. I have never been to jail. So, I would like to see what it is like. I like to drink. I am a trained cook and love to eat. We could drink and eat a lot and then go and ride bikes drunk. We would be intoxicated bicylers. This would be fun. The only draw back would be having to wear cotton panties. I have heard they take you panties away when you arrive and make you wear cotton ones? I hope this is not true. I am open to all ages and races. Please be clean and take care of yourself. Lets go get drunk and peddle. I love beer and cheer. sdoYou are the one that will be finding 2013-11-11 02:29:28all of the "keeper" type of ladies, I'm happy to tell you. ;) It's an excellent point. For me, Beautiful, is a term of endearment, meant for someone you know well. No you look perfect 2013-11-11 02:27:30I think I like you with a few drinks in you. I'd like you more if I was in you. Hhhahaa. That was corny, I know.can you tell i was about 3 drinks in ada_032013-11-11 02:26:14when she took it? gotta love girls' night :DsdoAnother question on what's OK to say to women trekbetterthenwars2013-11-11 02:25:58This one has much more grey area then my last question. When is it appropriate to tell a woman she is "beautiful"? I hate it when guys call like the cute cashier at a store, or a waiters at a restaurant beautiful...just seems inappropriate to me (especially when he is old enough to be her dad). Obviously if I was in a relationship right now I would tell my girlfriend everyday that she's beautiful, but what about if I'm flirting with a girl at a bar something? It still seems to fast to call someone "beautiful" "pretty" or "cute" Do I have a point, or am I just a wuss? sdoI used to play 2013-11-11 02:23:49drums. But, I don't have my drums anymore and they cost a small fortune. sdoi used to play the piano ada_032013-11-11 02:22:35but now my fingers get tied in knots whenever i try to play. no muscle memory at all :(sdoI've been working :( 2013-11-11 02:21:45I wanted to hang out in the city, but we're trying to wrap things up out here, so business before pleasure.sdoI totally know what you mean! :) 2013-11-11 02:20:02Well, not currently. Once upon a time, though. sdothank you :) ada_032013-11-11 02:19:59i'm refreshed that a guy would even ask for a lady's perspective. it's nice to know that there are some out there that don't use those terms in everyday conversation.sdocountry is really all that fits me ada_032013-11-11 02:18:10i can't do the modern pop stuff. it's too much screeching, haha. you play any instruments?
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