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abzYou know, after reading GreenOrGrey2013-11-24 01:48:45your posts in this thread, I wanted to let you know that you have a great deal of insight, and a very positive way of sharing it here. Thank you. abzah The_Black_Angel2013-11-24 01:45:18you are acting appropriately in good judgement it is only balanced that a negative is countered with a correction the 'feeling bad' is a personality trait that 1.) does not want to be accountable for altering the feelings of others 2.) is afraid of exercising ones authority in short, you should realize you should not feel bad for correcting people when they are wrong-doing you, it is an essential skill needed to function among other humans.. unless of course you work alone and aren't around people a lot it really comes down to beliefs about yourself, i read there are 20-30 different aspects to ones personality. nifty huh?abzI know it 2013-11-24 01:44:27You're hangin out with the wrong girlsabzAfter I told her how I felt 2013-11-24 01:41:27I felt guilty, and said I hope you forgive me. I don't want this friendship, I don't like that I allowed myself to be in that position. I don't want any contact with her, I just want to build myself up now.If I were up your ass, you'd know. § 2013-11-24 01:39:44abzby the way... The_Black_Angel2013-11-24 01:39:18i have been in your exact position. the 'i should fade' is a scapegoat to not deal with personal convictions. ever see a friendship where people bag on each other in front of everyone to see/ they both have an understanding of themselves so its easy for them to take jabs at each other for sport esteem and sense of self is almost a tangible thing to the psyche and needs to be built up if you allow instances and circumstances to offend you from other humans, and then fade when you feel they are not good people, you will end up alone, because there will always be a reason it comes from a deep down intolerance for critisicm - the good news is you can build yourself up rather quickly and able to handle all different aspects of personalities once you get a sense of selfabzI'm sure you believe that § stinkydogbutt1662013-11-24 01:38:45abzThank you 2013-11-24 01:37:58 I hope this guilt goes away. abzYou're a dog's ass, what do you know BarefootNBluejeans2013-11-24 01:37:13I'm the best friend you could ever ask forabzyou need to build yourself up The_Black_Angel2013-11-24 01:35:24i mean you need to build up your self esteem. maybe you didnt have positive reinforcement as a kid. there are certain people who are raised a certain way, people with strong upbringings, good or bad, who have a sense of self, sometimes grow into people who abuse their position what i am saying is, strong willed people who seem to be able to do those kinds of things to you, have their strenghts and weaknesses. a personality can be strong in different areas and weak in ones. for example, seems like you let people disrespect you. it does not mean you are a bad person, this possibly stems from not knowing when to stick up for yourself you can always make new friends, but just remember no matter where you go in life, if you do not deal with 'allowing' people to walk on you, the older you get, the more severe it will be in your psyche the good news is this is easily reversed quicklyabzI don't think women are capable of friendship stinkydogbutt1662013-11-24 01:33:19or at least meaningful friendship. Fealty, loyalty, and personal honor are not encoded in the female DNAWho would I be talking to, & why not talk here? § 2013-11-24 01:31:23abzI'm sorry, but she does not GreenOrGrey2013-11-24 01:30:45sound like a friend at all, not a true one by any means. I'm happy to hear that you are letting go of the expectations you may have had for that friendship. I'm hoping you'll continue to reach out, and find some new friends that do care, and listen to you. he's also good looking, funny, & eats ass 2013-11-24 01:30:01Taking his whole package into consideration (including his pretty cock), I'd say he's date-able. My SO stays out at sea BarefootNBluejeans2013-11-24 01:29:09I don't know if I can do this anymore I might be ready to toss it ...there, I said it :(abzSkip this two sentences are too much long-read2013-11-24 01:27:02I am writing this for my own mind because there is no one to talk to and its burdening me. I should have just kept my mouth shut and faded on this friend (both are girls). The friendship was about me listening ONLY. The indifference if I tried to share something was overwhelming and she would stop me in my 'mouth tracks' any way if I tried. Worse at times she would wield thinly veiled digs or strikes to hurt me. In other words she has a tricky tongue. One painful one was over my daughter I lost. One time she made me feel guilty for not driving 30 miles to see her when I told the all the money I had was to fix my car...so I used that money put in gas to go see her. I was suicidal in the past and had other serious mental problems....I don't want this friendship now. I want to protect myself, my own life and I don't want to take a chance with her, I don't know what she will say in the future, she is kinda programmed that way. Right now I need to focus on my life and I don't want her in my head. I don't want to think I am bad for protecting myself.That's good. GreenOrGrey2013-11-24 01:26:01It's hard being away from an SO long-term. I understand. Are you able to at least call to talk each night, when it could be the hardest to be apart? I get what you're saying IhateUKenny2013-11-24 01:22:43It was like that for me... Getting into a routine helped me straighten things out.quiI'm rollin with the business card angle BarefootNBluejeans2013-11-24 01:21:47...You have to market yourselfBeen away from my s/o 2013-11-24 01:20:45 I forgot what it's like to be single. On one hand, you're kinda open for more experiences (I Guess?) But I dread coming home, being alone or watching TV or going on the internet, or spending my time with you fine people. You know I get it, everyone needs something, like alcohol, or sex, or drugs, or a distraction But when you have someone to come home to all that stuff is easy to forget about. I find it difficult to be productive and do things after work, hopefully i'll snap out of it. quiI'll be long gone, off to my new job, Duncan_Dickie2013-11-24 01:19:54before she's ever ready for another man's touch.quiI would keep the whole woman, intact, forever. § Duncan_Dickie2013-11-24 01:17:00quiFor a change, I thought I'd make sure Duncan_Dickie2013-11-24 01:13:23brain is in gear, BEFORE putting mouth in motion.quiHmm. Guess I thought that GreenOrGrey2013-11-24 01:11:02you were actually with her when you posted it the first time. Sounded like you needed help right that moment! quiI hope they're oily... § Duncan_Dickie2013-11-24 01:10:44quiThat's the whole point. I'm asking BEFORE I do i Duncan_Dickie2013-11-24 01:09:27This is the job I'm quitting in two weeks, so, no heartburn over what comes out of my mouth at this point.so if I lick your butthole 2013-11-24 01:09:22it's pretty safe and clean?quigood thing I'm wearin' mittens :D § 2013-11-24 01:08:17sydJessie is a friend 2013-11-24 01:07:29I know he's been a good friend of minequiI never said I was quitting the forum IhateUKenny2013-11-24 01:06:56I said I was leaving right then. Sorry to disappoint.

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