nhmI am good Sullivan782013-10-05 04:58:38How are you? bosReading your thread, I find myself comparing Sullivan782013-10-05 04:46:15your situation to that of a Jerry Springer episode: 1) If the guy is 50, as much as his sister may or may not care about him, why can't he date whomever he wants and make his own choices? That's such an annoyance to me when family pokes their nose into my dating life and tries to tell me who I can and cannot date. (My family OR the woman's.) 2) If he lives so close, why, all of this time, have you only been in contact via letters? If someone was that close to my heart and that close to me physically, I would make an attempt to see that person more frequently AND keep the letters going. 3) If he kissed you on the cheek and told you how beautiful you are, and you feel that it's only the booze, why not invite him out for a nice, booze-free dinner and chat for a while. Maybe tell him how you feel about everything. It might shock his system at first (he seems to have been harboring similar feelings for you for a while) but it's something you both can work through if you both truly love each other. 4) As far as meeting the sister, you don't owe her anything; you can make nice concessions to her to be respectful, but you don't owe her anything. You've known the guy since 1998 (?) That should more than appease the sister that you've been friends that long without there being any drama (if, in fact, there hasn't been any.) A nice, brief letter would be fine; a nice face-to-face would be alright, but beyond that, you don't owe her anything and it's really none of her business. Sorry for the long-windedness. sfoI think it's the meth § -ur-smoking2013-10-05 04:33:57sfoi smell smoke in my room 2013-10-05 04:32:10i dont smoke. my window is open and i think i smell smoke. OR it's not smoke but a sensory overload from the stimulants. if ronnie and mike ever met 2013-10-05 04:32:01man my mom and i would be able to talk about that for hours...Me too! I need a good day.... § joechive9112013-10-05 04:17:01GOOD FUCKING MORNING 2013-10-05 04:16:24Hi! I hope you have a great day.Nah, I'm set in my ways 2013-10-05 04:15:58I've given up on trying to change at this point. I'll just keep to myself. It's okay. I still have hobbies I enjoy, work I do, the days go by alright.pdxI sent my ex flowers 2013-10-05 04:10:03http://www.deadroses.com/
might be time to chose another path -2013-10-05 04:09:39start over and don't look back. i sense some positivity in you so you have that going for you.pdxI sent my ex a birthday card -2013-10-05 04:07:55it was for someone special and I put birthday scratch offs inside. The postage came to $.66It's not that hard -2013-10-05 04:07:18I'm apparently quite good at it. As my ex wife, ex step kids, ex girlfriends, ex best friends, and so on. Seems to be a personality defect on my part. I'm even getting better at it over the years! I don't want to meet new people. I happen to like people, in a general sort of way. I wouldn't want to make them unhappy, so I just side step the entire issue.You have to understand that I have no reason to -think2013-10-05 04:07:10you just say that bullshit here to save face like you really weren't having fun doing this to me.I can't stop thinking of him -2013-10-05 04:05:47I'm going to die alone & heartbroken :((Or what did they do -2013-10-05 04:05:20I have had to cut ties with a parent.I can't take it anymore. -2013-10-05 04:01:44Where do you people draw the line? This shit is NOT working.bosshe is on facebook CinnamonDrop2013-10-05 03:53:11I am tempted to write her a nice letter on facebook and introduce myself to her and tell her I care about her brother and I want to have a real friendship with him instead of us just writing letters back and forth to one another like we do now. he lives 20 minutes away from me and I dont know his cell number and I only know his po box, he recently moved and I only have a generl idea as to where he is living now...he is 50 and lives with his sister and according to his ex, she tells him who he can and can't see and gives him a hard time when he wants to visit his ex.what i don't understand -2013-10-05 03:51:46is how you'd make people miserable. i wasn't talking to my grandparent for a while. i called the other day and started asking how they're doing and said i want to be a family again. if that's not something you'd consider, try meeting new people. i'm going to sign up for a workshop soon.Perhaps, but I won't -2013-10-05 03:49:28I don't want to make people unhappy, so I won't inflict my presence upon others more than I must (aka shopping, driving, etc). It's not the worst life. Little lonely sometimes, but better than making people miserable.bosone other problem is his sister CinnamonDrop2013-10-05 03:48:32he said she is why he hasn't written me, said she doesn't like me, I have never met the woman but I fear she will make it hard for him if he wants to see me againbosi love him CinnamonDrop2013-10-05 03:44:55we hadn't seen each other since 1998, we keep in touch by writing letters and I told his ex girlfriend I hadn't heard from him in over a month so she asked him to call me and invite me over to her place so that I could meet her and see him. he was all over me in front of her, I think it bothered her but at the same time, she talked about other men who want to have sex with her right in front of him and she told me his dick is dead.....I was so embarassedand to add -2013-10-05 03:43:45if someone actually did this, i'd cut ties and start making amends with my kids.Nope, really nobody -2013-10-05 03:41:04I've driven everybody who ever cared about me out of my life. So now it's just me. On the bright side, I've learned that I'm a shit, so I don't try to inflict myself on others anymore, so that's something. Right?i have secrets -2013-10-05 03:40:30what they don't know wont hurt them. some things i'm taking to my graveboshe told me he loved me CinnamonDrop2013-10-05 03:39:56in front of his ex girlfriend. kept on hugging me, kissed my cheek, and said I was beautifulI agree with you -2013-10-05 03:37:04Nobody loves me.that is every parents wish -2013-10-05 03:35:58if my kids succeed , I have toounk;) *hear that 2013-10-05 03:35:28but..."heart that" too I guess. unkI'm glad to heart that. § GreenOrGrey2013-10-05 03:34:28unkmy parents are dead -2013-10-05 03:34:06however as a parent myself I will love my children no matter what. always ways to make it better
might be time to chose another path -2013-10-05 04:09:39start over and don't look back. i sense some positivity in you so you have that going for you.pdxI sent my ex a birthday card -2013-10-05 04:07:55it was for someone special and I put birthday scratch offs inside. The postage came to $.66It's not that hard -2013-10-05 04:07:18I'm apparently quite good at it. As my ex wife, ex step kids, ex girlfriends, ex best friends, and so on. Seems to be a personality defect on my part. I'm even getting better at it over the years! I don't want to meet new people. I happen to like people, in a general sort of way. I wouldn't want to make them unhappy, so I just side step the entire issue.You have to understand that I have no reason to -think2013-10-05 04:07:10you just say that bullshit here to save face like you really weren't having fun doing this to me.I can't stop thinking of him -2013-10-05 04:05:47I'm going to die alone & heartbroken :((Or what did they do -2013-10-05 04:05:20I have had to cut ties with a parent.I can't take it anymore. -2013-10-05 04:01:44Where do you people draw the line? This shit is NOT working.bosshe is on facebook CinnamonDrop2013-10-05 03:53:11I am tempted to write her a nice letter on facebook and introduce myself to her and tell her I care about her brother and I want to have a real friendship with him instead of us just writing letters back and forth to one another like we do now. he lives 20 minutes away from me and I dont know his cell number and I only know his po box, he recently moved and I only have a generl idea as to where he is living now...he is 50 and lives with his sister and according to his ex, she tells him who he can and can't see and gives him a hard time when he wants to visit his ex.what i don't understand -2013-10-05 03:51:46is how you'd make people miserable. i wasn't talking to my grandparent for a while. i called the other day and started asking how they're doing and said i want to be a family again. if that's not something you'd consider, try meeting new people. i'm going to sign up for a workshop soon.Perhaps, but I won't -2013-10-05 03:49:28I don't want to make people unhappy, so I won't inflict my presence upon others more than I must (aka shopping, driving, etc). It's not the worst life. Little lonely sometimes, but better than making people miserable.bosone other problem is his sister CinnamonDrop2013-10-05 03:48:32he said she is why he hasn't written me, said she doesn't like me, I have never met the woman but I fear she will make it hard for him if he wants to see me againbosi love him CinnamonDrop2013-10-05 03:44:55we hadn't seen each other since 1998, we keep in touch by writing letters and I told his ex girlfriend I hadn't heard from him in over a month so she asked him to call me and invite me over to her place so that I could meet her and see him. he was all over me in front of her, I think it bothered her but at the same time, she talked about other men who want to have sex with her right in front of him and she told me his dick is dead.....I was so embarassedand to add -2013-10-05 03:43:45if someone actually did this, i'd cut ties and start making amends with my kids.Nope, really nobody -2013-10-05 03:41:04I've driven everybody who ever cared about me out of my life. So now it's just me. On the bright side, I've learned that I'm a shit, so I don't try to inflict myself on others anymore, so that's something. Right?i have secrets -2013-10-05 03:40:30what they don't know wont hurt them. some things i'm taking to my graveboshe told me he loved me CinnamonDrop2013-10-05 03:39:56in front of his ex girlfriend. kept on hugging me, kissed my cheek, and said I was beautifulI agree with you -2013-10-05 03:37:04Nobody loves me.that is every parents wish -2013-10-05 03:35:58if my kids succeed , I have toounk;) *hear that 2013-10-05 03:35:28but..."heart that" too I guess. unkI'm glad to heart that. § GreenOrGrey2013-10-05 03:34:28unkmy parents are dead -2013-10-05 03:34:06however as a parent myself I will love my children no matter what. always ways to make it better This post has been generated by Page2RSS
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